Ministry and care without requiring recognition from others

MINISTRY AND CARE
WITHOUT REQUIRING RECOGNITION FROM OTHERS

Many times, when we care for those in need of special aid, for those that are not able to take care of themselves, that have chronic and grave illnesses or that have progressed in age, we may feel that they do not value our assistance. This may cause us to be fatigued and despondent. No one can deny that such care is difficult. Yet, we must remember that ministering to those in need always humbles us. It brings us before the realities of human existence. It reveals our human limitations, our resilience and our weaknesses. Thus, these circumstances impel us to depend on God’s strength and help and say: “I can do all this through him who gives me strength” (Philippians 4:13).  

An example of a worthy caregiver is Abba John the Lesser from Thebes of Egypt.   Abba John was the disciple of Abba Ammon. He ministered to his Abba in his sickness for twelve years, remaining always by his bedside. Yet the old man never acknowledged John’s help.  Never once did he say to him, “May you be saved!”.  And when the old man was about to die, and the other old Elders were sitting before him, Abba Ammon took John’s hand and said to him, “May you be saved!” Then he committed him to the old men and said to them, “This is an angel, and not a man.”

Having Abba John in mind, let us never give up in our efforts in offering care and solitude to others, as difficult as it may be. If we remain with humility, patience, and fortitude in offering our care, God will strengthen us in our endeavors. For He is our salvation and will stand by us and show His love.

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